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Six subway stops from the share house in Brooklyn to the language school in Midtown Manhattan.
Morning rush hour.
When the doors slid open, people poured in like a tide. I abandoned a philosopher’s pride and chose survival instinct, shoving my way inside.
Over the speaker came the endless refrain: “Stand clear of the closing doors, please.”
It sounded almost like a philosophical maxim: Stand back from the closing door. Humanity itself seemed to live forever at thresholds.
The subway scene could have been Seoul.
Young people gripping their phones instead of books, middle-aged men with headphones sunk into a trance, an office lady staring blankly into the darkness outside. And me—an outsider.
The subway was the city’s bloodstream, cramming bodies together, dictating speed and direction, forcing shoulders and breath to collide.
And in that press of strangers, I realized: existence is not revealed in solitude but in the jolt of collision with others.
The train lurched back into darkness, and the city’s heartbeat merged with my own pulse.
At the school, the classroom was already buzzing. Students from Korea, China, Colombia, Russia.
Today’s lesson: idioms.
The teacher wrote on the board:
Break the ice. Spill the beans. Kick the bucket.
I froze. Break the ice? Spill beans? Kick a bucket?
My head filled with odd images. Why must conversation begin by breaking ice? Why should secrets scatter like beans? Why should death be a boot striking a pail?
The teacher scanned the room.
“Any volunteers? Who wants to try a sentence?”
The Russian student beside me nudged my arm.
“Hey, philosopher, your turn.”
I spoke slowly.
“My life in New York is… break the ice with pain.”
The room erupted in laughter. Even the teacher smiled.
“Not exactly… but very creative.”
After class, I lingered by the window. The sky over New York was still gray, the subway’s roar echoing faintly in the distance.
The idiom looped in my mind: Break the ice.
It wasn’t just a phrase. It was the wall of consciousness I collided with every day in this city.
When class ended, a few students waved me over—Ivan from Russia, Camila from Colombia, and me.
The three of us sat in a corner café with brick walls, hip-hop on the speakers, a young barista pounding the espresso machine.
Camila leaned forward.
“Why are you here? Why study English in New York?”
I paused.
“Because… existence is not enough in Korean. I need another language to survive.”
Camila tilted her head, then burst into laughter.
“Existence? You’re so serious! In Colombia, we just need coffee.”
Ivan chuckled.
“In Russia, we need vodka. Existence is optional.”
Their laughter unsettled me—and freed me. Existence wasn’t locked in books. It was alive, running through jokes across a café table.
When we stepped back onto the street, the air felt different. A truck screeched to a stop. Children ran past with ice cream cones, shouting in delight.
And I realized:
Existence does not need to be heavy. Maybe it had already slipped into the laughter of kids with melting ice cream.