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Don't gossip !!

by 김용년

Don't gossip or go along with it.


Don't talk or listen to other people's gossip.


Do not gossip with others in the absence of the person concerned. Even if the other person started the gossip first, don't go along with them and agree. If you respond even slightly and tell him a little about his weaknesses, you will end up becoming the same person. If your partner continues to gossip about others, be tactful and change the subject to something else. Showing interest while listening to someone else's words is the same as gossiping about that person.


Birds listen to the day and mice listen to the night. No matter how secretly the words are said, they will surely go into the ears of the person concerned over time. It's easy to inadvertently say bad things when you're in the mood of a person you're talking to. If you talk about other people's flaws, it will cause disaster in the future. It is safe in many ways to talk only about the person's strengths and good points in a place where the person is not present. That way, you can live comfortably without worrying about being left behind by people.

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