Resolving human relations starts with me.
What should I do when my opponent doesn't understand my heart? Should I be resentful thinking, “Why can’t the other person do what I want?” Problems cannot be solved with such a resentful heart. It's because you blamed the other party for the problem. This is because the perception that the other person is the problem is strongly entrenched in my mind.
Interpersonal problems are usually difficult to solve by blaming the other person. The start of solving human relationship problems should start with me. You must first think about why the other person thinks that way, in what way the other person misunderstands you, and why the other person is having a hard time. Starting from this perspective, you can understand the other person and get a clue to solving the problem.
You have to think that you are the problem, not the other person. Trying to change the opponent won't solve the problem. You have to look back at yourself first so you can understand the other person and solve the problem. You have the key to solving the problem. I hope you find a solution while remembering that it is 'you' who unlocks the lock, not the other person.