Love and maturity

For meeting the right person

When I was just 29, i had been thinking a lot about where is my lover or why I could not meet. Mostly friends near me started to get married and they had a baby at 32 to 33. It looks so lovely but their way of lives would not be mine.

Actually, I still don't know what love is and ask myself if it would be possible for me in my whole life. I always have been figured it out of real relationships, but as i had faced  disappointing attitudes, though, I want to get trust from people. Because of these reasons, I finally realized that forcing someone to match was not a good idea. Rather, It would be much better to wait a person who has an honest, healthy lifestyle like a non-smoking,  strong frugal mindset, kindness, etc. 

So that, that's why getting married is paid close attention. Because, if man or woman have no willing to change their bad habits, there is a high possibility of hurting the other person and not maintaining a good relationship either. Only the maturity of their own lives is related to sustainable relationships and long-lasting love. It's a real word that i could say.