Let me comfort myself first rather than waiting to be comforted by others. Sometimes the thought of being comforted by others makes it harder for me. No one can comfort me like I do to my satisfaction. Let's comfort me while comforting my tired and hard heart.
If something happens that makes you hard and tired, stop for a moment and think about it. Think calmly about what life has been trying to teach you and what you have to learn from it. If you learn the lessons life gives through that work, it will be a great comfort and give you the strength to stand up again.
And let's comfort others who are struggling and tired like you. Let's help those who need comfort. If you comfort others, your wounds are healed, you are comforted, and you have the courage to stand up again.
Let's comfort me when I'm tired by stroking me warmly.