Don't try to change your family into what you want them to be. It only hurts you and makes you fall out with your family. Try changing your child. It's very difficult. Try changing your spouse. It's very hard. Try changing parents. It's very, very difficult. Because changing people's minds is incredibly difficult. It's almost impossible to change your family's mind the way you want it to.
A person can only change himself. He doesn't change easily unless he goes through a crisis, experiences pain, and feels desperate. Only when he realizes himself desperately does change begin.
Ask yourself. Have I changed to what my parents, spouse, or children want? If not, don't force your family to change. Before I ask for change, I must change first. When I change, the world changes, and when I change, the family changes. The subject of change is ‘I’. Change must start with me.