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Don't make enemies.

by 김용년

If you are very angry with your opponent, your opponent can become your enemy, and if you are patient, your opponent can become your friend.


Just because you feel offended by someone, don't curse at them on the spot. Your words, poured out as if pouring out your emotions, dirty your mouth, dirty your ears, and hurt your heart. And the curse that criticized the opponent will make you a potential enemy in the future.


Don't curse at him behind his back just because he has a different opinion than you do. If you do it often, it becomes a habit to criticize. That negative gossip will go round and round the ears of the other party, creating potential enemies in the future. Making no enemies is much wiser than being able to defeat all enemies.


No matter how upset you are, never say the last thing you shouldn't. Because the moment you say that, the other person will also tell you the last thing they shouldn't. Those words can wipe out all the good memories. Even if circumstances change and people's minds change, it's good to leave beautiful memories. No matter how upset you are, don't say the last word. It's important to leave room for improvement in your relationships with people in the future. Nobody knows the future. When you control your emotions, control your mind, and be patient, your enemies can come back as friends in the future.


If you get angry, your character will go down, and if you are patient, your character will go up.

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