Reg. difficulty in Canada
Moving out declaration of my roommate
I've gone through plenty of difficulty during my life in Canada. Because everything was first time. I've never had home, job, friend, literally life itself in here. To be honest, these days were better than before. I mean, I settled down here decently. I got a house, jobs and kind roommates. But the graph doesn't always go upward. The more it goes up, the more possiblity to goes down.
Recently, I had some conflicts in my workplaces both. Technically, with my superiors. Surely, it was not that serious so we made up immediately. But the effect of it remained a few days. Plus, I swamped and got a challnge to propose an AD to someone. In the same time, I made too many appointments to hangout. I also worked out everyday. When each of these gathered together, I was groggy.
Yesterday, I finally slept over 8 hours and muscle pain was relieved. I didn't have a serving shift as well. Super nice for rest. I just had planned to go swimming after work and sleep early. what a peaceful. When I came back home after work yesterday, the girl who is roommate looks not that good though. Something was wrong and she declared to move out the house again.
Bascially, she said samely in the past too. But another roommate and I persuaded a lot and she accepted. The reason was simple. She is very tidy person. Messed up places are no go for her even if somewhere is not for her. Actually, so she kept asking us clean up the table. After her first declaration, we have made an effort to keep it clean and tidy. But she might not be able to be satisfied with it. As a result, there were many circumstances that we couldn't cut it. Furthermore, she is not good at telling her emotion or demand honestly to others.
Anyway, you know, living together is continuous process of compromise. We have to understand each other. Sometimes we sacrifice, sometimes we can give a trouble. If you feel bad from other, then you gotta tell the person about your emotion clearly and talk. If you cannot do that, then you should find new roommates who is kinda destiny that most of things are so similar from the first. No one is better, No one is worse. It's just matter of personality.
The boy and me both are not willing to talk her out of it. Therefore, many things will be changed. We've never thought about living separately, so we don't have a partition for living room share. We also don't have any tables in rooms and so on. I'm just stressed since I have to prepare for new roommate. I need a peace.
By the way, it is what it is. There is no exit. I must fight. I believe and look forward that nice roommate will come to us. I know I can get back the stable life soon.
