(And to other moms out there...)
To still persue, to get to know myself after become something(for me, becoming a mum), is important.
Put some naughty make up on.
Wear SEE THROUGH clothes on for no reason.
And feel guilty, to have a time for yourself,
but never feel it long enough to not to enjoy your time being away, yourself the most.
(Well, besides of being a great mom and all!)