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by 시선 디자이너 May 29. 2024

Do you want to be vulnerable?

The power of sharing vulnerability 

We’re afraid of exposing our weaknesses. 

Why?

Because we fear condemnation. 

We worry: 

What will others think of me? 

What will people say about me? 


But is this really important? 

Does it truly matter? 

Is it even a fact?


Living in a small city in the U.S. and spending most of my time at home, 

I've had ample time to reflect on my vulnerabilities and my weakest self.


When asked, “Do you want to be vulnerable?” 

my answer is both yes and no.

It's a fact that I'm a vulnerable human being. 

What others say about me matters. 

Validation from others is important. 

Yet, that’s not the full story. 

I’m vulnerable, but I’m also valuable.


I am vulnerable, but I want to embrace my vulnerability for my sake and for others. 

My vulnerability allows me to grow more humble and strong. 

Sharing my vulnerability creates a space for others to relax and feel at ease.


Moreover, it’s okay to have flaws. 

I have people in my life who complement my story. 

My vulnerability becomes an opportunity for others to help me, teach me, and love me. 

When I share my vulnerabilities, the people who are worth keeping in my life respond with warm smiles and open arms.


So, I want to be more vulnerable and, consequently, more valuable

The first step is identifying my vulnerabilities. 

Acknowledging my weaknesses and recognizing them. 

Then, sharing my vulnerability so others can support me. 

This creates a win-win situation and, ultimately, a loving community.


Together, our stories will be painted with the help and love of those around us. 

We, in turn, can contribute to the stories of others with our support and love. 

Isn’t it amazing?


So, again, do you want to be more vulnerable?

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